Lost control of group in Directory ; how to retrieve it?

I’ve always wondered this too.

After posting, Drafts will keep a secret reference, and the same item can be updated to fix issues or update the description - or it can be removed from the Directory. Only the user who originally posted the action can update or remove it – though the identifier and secret will be synced through iCloud.

And now… I happened to have caused the same issue for myself again.